This guest post from Werner Rogers
Sometimes I wonder if my husband is ever going to pay attention to me. When we were dating everything seemed simple. He liked to be around me, and we used to do fun things together. When we were first married things started to change, but not as much as when we had our first child. I spend all my time cleaning and taking care of our daughter and cleaning the house, and he spends all his time watching directv sports or managing his fantasy football teams. I’ve tried to tell him how much his behavior bothers me, but he just brushes it off. This year I’m going to try and find something new that we can do together. I’ve been thinking about asking my sister to baby sit once a week so that we can at least have a night alone and work on our relationship. I don’t want my daughter to end up being raised in a single parent home, but I know that if we stay on this track, that’s where we’re headed. I think my husband will respond when he sees how much effort I’m putting in to this.